News from the Hughes
So, I
finally have a few quiet and free moments and wanted to let everyone know we’re
here. It starts off a bit bleak, but
just keep reading, it does get better. DOROTHY, YOU’RE NOT IN KANSAS ANYMORE!
The
First 24 Hours – We arrived in Tarija on October 18th
at around 5:00 pm and what should only be a 13 hour trip was more like 2 days
for us (Lesson Learned -- the cheaper your flight, the more you wait and wait
and wait at airports). We arrive in
Tarija tired and a little worse for wear. There is a lot of beautiful landscape in
Bolivia and as we fly to our new home in Tarija, I can see lush green mountains
that must be the rain forest. I’ve never
seen such beautiful mountains, and I hope someday I get to see this beauty up
close. We arrive at Tarija’s small airport
and our plane is the only one that arrives. I think they must only have 1
flight arrival per day. Then we see our
friend waving at us in the distance, mountains on the horizon and flowered
trees, and I think to myself, “I’M GOING TO LOVE IT HERE.”


Our friend has come to the airport with two Bolivian
brothers to pick us up. The Bolivian friends are wonderful (both the Need
Greaters and native Bolivians). We have
a lot of luggage and it takes 2 cars to get all of us and our luggage to our
new apartment. As we drive to our new
home, the scenery begins to change. We
start to see less tropical flora and fauna, and instead there are run-down
buildings, stray dogs, and things begin to feel very strange and foreign. Tarija
is a small city, but unlike U.S. neighborhoods with manicured lawns as far as
the eye can see, you have a nice home and then right next door will be a run-down
home with piles of rubble everywhere. A brother and his wife who are from New
Zealand have gotten us our apartment, which is in a safe part of town. We live above a family of Jehovah’s Witnesses
(our landlords). Our apartment is huge,
and has a lot of nice comforts including a modern fridge, nice stove, and
washing machine. We even have a
microwave!
I’ve been told by other Need Greaters that no matter how
much you plan and prepare – nothing prepares you for the reality of actually
living in a new country. THAT IS SOOOOOO
TRUE! Everything in Tarija feels strange
-- the language, the people, the food, even the smells. Our first night we go out to dinner with some
friends and the 2 brothers that picked us up at the airport. In hindsight we
probably would have fared better just having a nice, quiet meal at home. As we drive to the restaurant there is some
celebration going on and it seems as if everyone in Tarija has crammed
themselves into the central Plaza. There
are a lot of cars, crazy drivers, noise, and everything is hectic and strange
and I think to myself, “I HATE IT HERE. WHAT HAVE I DONE? I DON’T BELONG HERE.
WHY DID I THINK I COULD DO THIS?”
The cars don’t stop for people and so if you cross the
road, you had better make sure you can get across in time because the car won’t
stop. Our dear brothers that valiantly
volunteered to take us around are no different.
It feels as if any minute he’s going to hit somebody crossing the road
and by the time we reach the restaurant we are all stressed out. I tell myself not to panic – I can come home
at any time, and there is no doubt in my mind that we’ll be going home with
Jasmine and Jaina in 3 months. The dinner was nice and calm and we get back to
the apartment feeling more at ease with our situation.
It’s been unusually hot in Tarija and so we stop to pick up
two fans to keep things cool – you know the kind you buy in a box at Walmart
and open it up and it’s pretty easy to assemble. Except the fans you buy in a box in Bolivia
include 50 different pieces, needing to be assembled by some skilled factory
worker – no instructions, and we’re expected to know how to put them together. So,
the fans don’t get put together, we open up the windows and let the nice breeze
from the mountains blow through our place.
STILL THE FIRST 24 HOURS…..
So, we wake up the next day and all of us are covered in a lot of
mosquito bites. I mean just on one arm
we each have about 15 bites. We later
learn that the unusually hot weather has also brought a wave of mosquitos that
have bitten the mess out of us. As we begin to start our day our little water
heater begins to have flames coming out of it inside the apartment. Aubri walks
over to shut it off when it does this steam explosion. I’m in a panic because all I think is that
Aubri has now been severely burned. Fortunately, the water was cold but now
this thing is leaking water all over the kitchen. Aubri runs downstairs and the dear brother
rushes upstairs to help us. He has to
run and get some needed parts and so we take turns putting pots under the leak
and dumping it into the kitchen sink while he runs and get the parts
needed. The water heater gets fixed, and
the 5 of us survived. But we all start looking at each other, feeling
over-whelmed and stressed out, and wanting to be back home.
The dear sister who met us at the airport comes over to the
apartment to take us to the local market where we can buy food because there is
no food in our apartment. As I walk around the various stalls of fruits,
vegetables, meat, and other household items like toilet paper, I start to feel
like this pampered American princess that has left a cushy life in the states
to come to this place where everything is hard and feels different. I’m mad at
myself because I think that unlike Abraham and Sarah who left the comforts of
Ur to do Jehovah’s will, I’m a Lot. I
want to live in a nice city where things are easier and it irritates me that I
feel like this.
All shopping in Bolivia is done at individual shops. You need pillows and towels– go to the linen
shop. You need stuff for the kitchen like pots and baking dishes – go to that shop. You need meat – go to that shop and so forth
and so on. And not all the shops are by each other. So for someone like us that need a lot of
things to set-up a new household, you can spend days visiting all the different
areas of town and different shops to get what you need. AND YET JUST A FEW DAYS
AGO I DROVE 5 MINUTES TO THE LOCAL WALMART FOR EVERYTHING. Sorry, I can't figure out how to rotate these pics.

We’ve been in Tarija less than 24 hours and instead of
feeling excited and wanting to embrace all that comes, the five of us are feeling
over-whelmed and homesick. It’s true
that Aubri has lived in Bolivia before, but she lived in a quiet and calm town in
the mountains -- and that was 2 years ago.
She’s gotten use again to the U.S. way of life. We have Sunday meeting tonight at 6:30 and
while we want to just stay home and relax and unwind, we get dressed and go to
meeting. Most people in Tarija walk
everywhere. So, to walk 15 minutes to
get to meeting isn’t a big deal, but as we get ready to leave the house it begins
to pour down rain. We do live in the
sub-tropics so the rain won’t last too long, but for now, taxis must be found
to get to meeting, which isn’t hard because of where our apartment is located. The
couple from New Zealand have really looked out for us. They’ve made sure we have a comfortable place
to live in nice part of town with easy access to all we need.
So, we get to meeting and the kingdom hall is pretty (of
course), and as we sit through a meeting where no one (except Aubri) understands
what’s going on, I’m suddenly struck by how wonderful it is to be in Jehovah’s house. No matter the language barrier or culture
change, we’re all Jehovah’s people and I suddenly feel very OK. These dear brothers and sisters don’t feel
foreign at all. They only feel like
Jehovah’s people and my friends. After
meeting the friends surround us with hugs and kisses and we even get invited to
a party. Most speak no English at all, yet
they find a way to let us know they’re excited we’re here and suddenly Tarija
doesn’t seem so bad. An American couple that have been living in Bolivia for a
year offer to walk us home, even though it is out of their way. The girls like
them a lot and we start very quickly to now make friends.
Day #2
– The
girls (who are quickly becoming amazing Need Greaters) figured out a way to put
the complicated fans together, and as I write this the girls are standing on
chairs on top of a bed, hanging mosquito nets. They even bought this hand-held
bug zapper that you wave around and it kills mosquitos.
A sister shows up this morning with flowers to welcome
us. She is American, and 4 years ago
their family including her husband, two sons and her parents moved to
Bolivia. They are actually in the sign
group but her son is helping me to get internet. We find out that she and her husband use to
be Missionaries in Bolivia before having children and wanted their children to
have this experience. You meet people
like this all the time in Tarija, and in just the 2 days we’ve been here, we’ve
met some really nice and wonderful friends. For example, the couple that found
us or apartment used to be in the Circuit work in New Zealand. Everyone seems to understand of all the
adjustments we’re making, and they encourage us to just hang in there 6 months
– in 6 months things won’t feel so hard.
Today we sign our lease for the apartment, and I think,
“NOW IS MY CHANCE TO BACK OUT, DON’T SIGN IT, JUST EXPLAIN YOU’RE ONLY STAYING
FOR 3 MONTHS.” Me and the girls look at
each other and we all agree to sign a one-year lease. The family that owns our apartment invites us
to get pizza, and while I decline, the girls go and have a wonderful time. Here is Jaina and Aubri with their new friend
Eva that lives downstairs. Eva is a
Regular Pioneer and has invited the girls to do all sorts of things with her
including being part of a Quick Build in November.

Day #3
– Jasmine
and Jaina go out in service (their first time) while me and the girls head off
to the Central Plaza to do more stuff for our residency. The girls go back to the market (you have to
go almost every 2 days to get food), and later that day I have a good cry. It all starts to sink in that we’ve moved to
a new country, and I’m a bit nervous that it was the right thing to do. Then, the friends from downstairs come up and
start measuring our windows. They are
going to install screens on them so that we’re protected from the mosquitoes.
Their new friend Eva invites Jaina and Priscilla to go out
in service on some Bible Studies the next day.
Me and Aubri have to work and Jasmine is going to just take a much
needed day to relax. The sister also
invites us to go to the mountains this Saturday with their congregation to work
a 12-hour day in the ministry. The girls
also get invited to go out with another congregation on Sunday that also go to
the mountains. They are trying to form a
new congregation and so a group of about 30 go every Sunday and preach in
another part of the mountains.
Mountains surround Tarija and every congregation is
assigned a portion of their mountain (or rural) territory to cover. It’s also the area where you find the grape
vineyards and wineries. The problem is
that it’s not as safe for us 5 women to live in that area, it’s harder to find
places to live, and you end up being around a lot of other Gringos versus your
Bolivian brothers and sisters. Everyone
patiently explains that we’re in a really nice situation because we have a
comfortable place to live and for those times when we want to preach in the
mountains, we can. So what if we have to constantly doge dog poop on the
sidewalks.
Day #4
– Jaina
and Priscilla have for field service, when about an hour later we see Priscilla
is home with 2 sisters and she is white as a sheet. She has fainted in field service. Priscilla didn’t eat breakfast + the much higher
altitude = dizziness and fainting. Priscilla’s blood sugar dropped. So, we are making her take it easy
today.
Our
First Week is Over - As I finish up this update we’ve been in
Bolivia 1 week, and despite the challenges and the strangeness, I think I’m really
going to like it here. Can I stay 2 years – the verdict is still out. But, I’m excited about at least mentally
committing to one year and I’m happy that we made the decision to come. It’s not what I expected, I wouldn’t call it
a tropical paradise, but there is a lot of natural beauty in Bolivia and it has
its own charm. But the most amazing part of this whole thing has been meeting
the friends. They are so wonderful and
loving and encouraging and they’ve made us feel that even though we’ve had to
say good-bye to our friends and family in the U.S., we now have new friends and
family that love and care about us and are there for us when we need help.
I THINK I’M GOING TO LIKE IT HERE!